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adoption kid get over it
it doesn't matter
it's in the past you can't change it
mother loved you
so much that she gave you up
maybe you're lucky
maybe you're much better off

you live with a
a complete stranger called mom
you also live with
a guy who's not your dad
maybe they love
you like you were their own
but you'll never know
'cause they'd never tell if they don't

adoption blues weighs in on you
no one to love you
the way a real mother can
no one to talk to
nobody understands
what does it feel like
to be unwanted and unloved?

somewhere in the world
a some stranger is your real mom
you’ve never met the dude
who is your actual dad
maybe one day
you will meet them both for lunch
and just to be nice they’ll politely say
“this was fun we should keep in touch.”


from Songs For Children To Cry To, released December 3, 2021
anthony kapfer - vocals, guitar
ricky wells - lead guitar, bass


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Anthony Kapfer New York, New York

Anthony Kapfer is a musician and comedian. He often performs live as a one man band. His music has been compared to They Might Be Giants mixed with The Pixies & Flight of the Conchords. Anthony spent all of 2019 on a headlining tour across the country.

Anthony Kapfer is the star of the film MUTE DATE, and appears in the films Ramekin, and Shredder, which are all recommended films on Amazon Prime
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